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How To Stop Paying For Dates With Women?

I've gotten several emails asking questions like "Should I pay for dates?" and "How do I avoid paying for dates?" The answer that I'm going to propose is deceptive in its simplicity, but hey... those are my favorite kind... DON'T GO OUT ON "TRADITIONAL DINNER DATES" ANYMORE. See, if you don't go out on "take her out to dinner" dates anymore, then you won't have to deal with paying for them. Profound, I know. Please, hold the applause. Let me explain this a little more. A lot of good research suggests that women think of men that are potential mate potential in one of two categories. I call these categories "Lover" and "Provider". The basic idea goes like this: In a "traditional" boy-meets-girl situation, the girl makes a decision early on whether you're the type of guy that she should get physically involved with quickly (spelled A-T-T-R-A-C-T-I-O-N) or if you're of the "nicer"